Surprise Marathon Meetings: How to Reclaim Your Time and Boost Productivity

Alright, picture this: you're in a meeting about a new product or some shiny new features, hashing out how it’s all supposed to behave. It’s just you, a bunch of your peers, and a few lower-level IT managers tossed into the mix. This meeting was supposed to be a quick 45-minute thing—get in, get out, back to business. But here we are, closing in on the 3-hour mark, snacks long gone, and everyone's staring at the clock, silently wondering how it all spiraled out of control.

Sound familiar? Welcome to the classic "Surprise Meeting Marathon!" I've been in so many of these meetings I am sure you have too. But here is how you can take control.

Meetings like this can quickly become non-productive if they frequently run well beyond the scheduled time without clear outcomes. Here’s why:

  1. Lack of Focus: A meeting scheduled for 45 minutes but running for 3 hours likely lacks a clear structure or decision-making framework. This often leads to a lot of discussions that could be more focused or offline, rather than delivering tangible progress.

  2. Decision Fatigue: The longer a meeting drags on, the less effective participants become. People tire, focus drifts, and decision-making quality drops. Critical issues may get rushed in the last moments, or attendees may become more prone to just agree to “wrap it up.”

  3. Opportunity Cost: For everyone involved, a 3-hour meeting has a major cost. In IT, our time is precious for working on actual deliverables, which long meetings often take away from.

  4. Symptom of Bigger Issues: When meetings routinely run long, it’s often a sign of inefficiencies in the decision-making process, unclear agendas, or a lack of prep. These might be resolved with better documentation, a focused pre-meeting agenda, or even asynchronous communication (like a shared document or quick message exchanges).

How to Make These Meetings Productive

If these meetings are necessary, Agile principles can help streamline them:

  • Timebox Discussions: Stick to the original time limit unless a specific extension is agreed upon with a clear purpose.
  • Have a Clear Agenda: Define specific goals, who’s needed for each topic, and how decisions will be made.
  • Parking Lot Technique: Capture tangential discussions in a “parking lot” to handle them later, so the meeting stays on track.
  • Frequent Check-ins: Regularly ask, “Are we moving toward a decision?” This keeps everyone mindful of the meeting’s purpose.

In Agile, frequent, focused interactions are far more effective than marathon meetings. Concise, structured check-ins create momentum and reduce “meeting fatigue,” keeping the team energized and aligned.

The Main Reason For Continuing The Meeting

One of the main reasons these meetings drag on is the old, "Well, we're already here, so might as well keep going!" This keeps everyone quiet, nodding along, even though most wouldn’t dare suggest, "Hey, maybe we don’t need to keep this going..."

In that situation, it’s crucial to diplomatically break the silence and redirect the group’s focus without making anyone feel uncomfortable. No one speaks up because they’re afraid they'll look like the office slacker—the one who's not a "team player." Everyone’s thinking it, but no one wants to be the one to say, “Hey, maybe we don’t need to stretch this meeting into a full-length feature film!” So, they sit tight, nodding along, hoping someone else will be brave enough to suggest a wrap-up.

Here’s how I’d approach it:

  1. Acknowledge the Extended Time: I’d start by saying something like, “We’re coming up on almost 3 hours now, and I want to respect everyone’s time.”

  2. Propose a Structured Next Step: Suggest a way to continue productively without staying in the meeting. “How about we summarize what we’ve covered so far, identify any open issues, and assign action items? Then we can wrap up here and reconvene if needed.”

  3. Empower the Group: Sometimes people just need permission to speak up. “I know we’re all already here, but let’s make sure we’re using our time in the best way possible. Does everyone feel we’ve covered enough to pause here and follow up offline or in a shorter meeting?”

  4. Offer to Facilitate the Next Steps: Taking ownership can reassure others that stopping isn’t abandoning the discussion but making it more effective. “I can pull together notes and remaining questions and schedule a focused follow-up. That way, we can all be better prepared to finish this efficiently.”

This approach respects people’s time and the meeting’s purpose, without putting anyone on the spot. It demonstrates leadership by refocusing the group on productivity, which often inspires others to feel comfortable voicing similar suggestions.

When Stand-Ups Go Sideways: Keeping the 15-Minute Meeting on Track


Ah, the Agile 15-minute stand-up—supposedly the short, sweet, “just-the-highlights” meeting. We’re all standing there, just trying to check in and move on with our day, when it happens: someone mentions testing. Suddenly, the team dives headfirst down a rabbit hole about why Feature X isn’t working, potential fixes, and the finer points of unit tests, and next thing you know, the “quick” stand-up is clocking in at 30 minutes... or longer.

And just like that, what started as a quick sync is now an in-depth troubleshooting session while everyone’s feet start to hurt and the caffeine wears off. So, how do we keep stand-ups from going rogue? 

Here are a few yet effective tips I have used that worked great:

1. The “Parking Lot” Technique

  • How it Works: When someone brings up an issue that needs more time, gently suggest it be parked for after the stand-up.
  • Example Line: “Let’s throw that in the parking lot for later.” Just imagine you’re saving the conversation a VIP spot to be revisited after the main event.

2. Appoint a Stand-Up Sheriff

  • How it Works: Designate someone (preferably with a good sense of humor) to keep things on track. This person can gently reel in discussions when they start to drift.
  • Example Line: “Alright folks, back on track. We’ve got 15 minutes here!” The sheriff’s job is to keep everyone on task—without the cowboy hat, unfortunately.

3. Set Up a Post-Stand-Up Huddle

  • How it Works: Preemptively schedule a quick troubleshooting session right after the stand-up for anyone who wants to stay and dig deeper into specific issues.
  • Example Line: “Let’s cover that right after the stand-up.” This way, you don’t derail the main meeting, and those who need the extra time can hop into a separate, focused discussion.

4. The Magic Words: “Let’s Take It Offline”

  • How it Works: Train the team to recognize these words as the sign that it’s time to pause and regroup after the meeting.
  • Example Line: “That’s a great discussion—let’s take it offline!” It’s the universal Agile way of saying, “Save it for later” without actually saying, “Save it for later.”

With these tricks, your stand-ups can stay short, focused, and a lot easier on everyone’s feet! Now, if only we could make coffee breaks mandatory after every Agile meeting…

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